The feeling of entitlement will as well. My husband is the same but good thing he got us a maid and he pays her, maybe instead of trying to make him work just to try to ask if he could hire someone. Turn on some music you both like and invite him to cook a meal with you. Make sure to make it fun. Then subtly remind him a couple of times in the following week much you enjoyed doing it together.
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