I was open with the teachers, asking for calls when it happened and asking for details (we can try to mitigate the behavior and give coping mechanisms if we knew what was leading up to it). It came to a head when my son was suspended for a day from the program. They told me a rather outlandish version of events and I asked to have a group meeting to discuss it (site director, teachers and witnesses). They wouldn’t accept my request. I asked to talk to the adult witness and the director said that’s what happened (like she was there but actually wasn’t).