Date nights are great but they won’t fix the problem and if she is really wound up it will be an uncomfortable exercise in futility. Get her away from everything, and sit down and be prepared to hear what she says with an open and accepting heart, then DO something. I recommend a day of driving back roads with a picnic basket of food and snacks, little cel interruptions, if she gets emotional or loud neither of you will be embarrassed or humiliated, and nature is soothing.
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