Ex’s only come back for three reasons.ONE they thought they found someone that could replace you,was better than you,more attractive than you,etc.they left you because they felt confident that it would work.but it didnt. So now their back.Two they wanted freedom.maybe you’re too clingy.or maybe they just wanted to go out and have fun and have the freedom to sleep with whoever they want.when you’re in a relationship for so long, especially a boring one, the dating scene,club scene starts to look appealing again.but after they get the freedom the shit gets old after awhile and now they miss the stability so they come back.third reason and the least likely, they actually love you.very rare someone comes back out of pure love.if someone has to leave you,take a break, meet and date other people to decide they love you, than they don’t.if they really loved you they would have never left in first place.simple.
It’s very wierd isn’t it, but sometimes people ABUSE the folk they claim to like!? They might start flirting but when they don’t get the response they wewre hoping for – they back off and act nasty like you Owe them. It often comes down to them not having the courage to progress things – they’re maybe a bit quiet-shy-cowardly ( I do think those 3 words often deserve to be together) and when you don’t Read His Mind or Take the Initiative – he gets frustrated with himself but is so arrogant that he blames YOU instead. Nice. I think men are often still expected to Take the Lead in Personal Relationship, and women should think more carefully about this as it’s part of the reason behind why so many men are in charge of Businesses in the West whereas in China/HK etc. they’ve progressed some distance from women only being employed as Lower Grade Employees, even if they’ve acquired astonishingly impressive Academic Qualifications.